Keeping score prioritizes the individual and not the relationship. When the focus is on one person over the other, the relationship loses. A guy once told me about the advice his father-in-law gave ...

You're currently following this author! Click to unsubscribe from email alerts. If you can't help but to point out when your partner forgets to fold the laundry (again) or is constantly late to date ...

Keeping score traps you in a mental ledger that undermines your relationship. Here’s how to break free. In any relationship, it’s easy to fall into the trap of mentally tallying every favor, chore or ...

I’ve been thinking about how we keep score in our relationships. It's easy to become frustrated when the people we love don't initiate contact, and it's a common complaint I hear in therapy. “I always ...